Isn’t it wild to think that we will be married in three or four months??? This has been a crazy courtship, eh?   I see you’re point about the time period for giving your current situation a try.  You’re right, at least six months would be reasonable, which (if my math is any good) is May.  As far as perception goes, I don’t know that it would be any different than seven or eight months, June or July, but that’s obviously up to you.  You’re also right (again) that there are a lot of practical things to take into consideration, and some of those are for me as well.  Assuming that I’m working in July, I don’t know how I will have the time to fly up there, get married, get you and your stuff, drive to LA, get you situated, then get back to work, etc… and we can’t possibly do all of this on a long weekend.  We could of course ship a lot of your stuff to my house, depending on how much stuff you are actually taking with you.  I know you want to push-off this heavy and painful thing for as long as possible, but at that point one month won’t make much of a difference, but it will make a very big practical difference for you and me and starting off the right way.  Think about that too, OK?