-Who wouldn’t understand you being circumspect about getting back together.  So what will it take to help with the fear?  What must I do?  You had asked me to go to therapy and get a ring.  I’m doing the therapy so that our relationship would be more understanding and with less of my baggage.  I bought a ring to show you my level of commitment to you and to us.  What’s next on the list, baby.  You need to tell me, and if you don’t know then please put some thought into what else there is I can do.  And if there’s nothing else I can do then where will that leave us?  I have fears as well, honey, but I’m not going to let any of them stop my trying for what it is I know my heart really wants.  So if therapy, a ring, poems, and spilling my guts into cyberspace virtually every day doesn’t do the trick, then what will?